The Meaning Of It.

The meaning of the h.a.t.e u. song by Mariah Carey.

Pain is not the easiest thing to live with. Pretending to be happy when you are in pain is just an example of how strong you are as a person. Pain is part of growing up and it is how we learn.

George Eliot states that pain must enter into its glorified life of memory before it can turn to compassion. Looking at this song it shows how deeply bruised she was. It’s as though he made it so hard for her to believe in love again or better yet to trust someone again.
 

It is always hard to say goodbye to the person you thought was or is the one. Letting go of something you once held so much high regard for tears one apart emotionally mentally and physically.  In the chorus of the song she even say she cannot wait to hate him make him pain like she is. But then again you can never hate someone you really loved.
 

You can be mad at them and not want to see them but hating them is the far from the table. Affairs of the heart are very complicated and if not very careful they can destroy one permanently. People come and go, just as pain comes and goes.

In her song there is a verse she says ‘‘no need to call my phone, I changed my numbers today and matter of fact she thought of moving away, meaning she had decided to let go and deal with her pain, running away from the pain she was going through seemed to be the only thing that will bring sanity to her miserable life. She even apologizes that her frustration towards the situation has her feeling like she has one last thing to say to him.
 

The reason why one gets frustrated is because you would have invested so much. The thought of letting something you worked so hard to build is rather frustrating.